The Story of Nashdom Abbey

 

I've had a thing about Nashdom Abbey for as long as I can remember. One my earliest memories- I must have been about five years old- is being taken there by my father to have tea with the monks (it was an Anglo-Catholic Benedictine monastary until 1987) and pulling up in the family Renault outside the rather grand (but austere) porticoed entrance which framed, in turn, a Tuscan style loggia.

 

Nashdom Abbey, Buckinghamshire

 

Nashdom House lies just outside Burnham Beeches, Buckinghamshire; about twenty five miles to the West of London. It was built by Sir Edwin Lutyens in 1905-9 for the Russian aristocrat, HH Prince Alexis Dolgorouki and his wife, Francis Fleetwood Wilson, an English heiress from Northamptonshire. They married at the tender age of 50; touchingly it seems to have been a genuine love match. "Nashdom" means "Our Home" in Russian. Like its better known neighbour, Cliveden, Nashdom was really more of a glorified villa- created for fashionable house parties and languid river excursions up The Thames: a retreat from the smoke and chaos of London, rather than as a genuine country house and estate in the old tradition. 

 

H. H. Prince Alexis Dolgorouki

 

Despite its size, it was supposed to have been relatively economical to run. I assume the house would have been crammed with all the latest Edwardian gadgets. And what a splendid house it is!  If anyone is looking for a house that illustrates Edwardian confidence and bravado, this, surely is going to be it. It's got more than a whiff of The Great Gatsby about it, hasn't it?

 

Nashdom Abbey, Buckinghamshire
 

After Alexis's death in 1915, Francis decamped to her Mediterranean villa, where she continued her career as a generous and gregarious hostess. After the First World War, the monks moved in to Nashdom. From 1986, the house was left empty- the interior derelict; a place no doubt haunted by the memory of those Edwardian house parties past. In 1997, the house, inevitably, became luxury flats and apartments for the BMW set.

 

Postscript

A big thank you to all those readers who have bothered to leave comments and send me more information about Nashdom and its fascinating past. I have been amazed by the response. And in the early summer of 2018, I received the following email from a reader, Lawrence, which, I am sure, will be of interest to anybody intrigued  by the history of Nashdom Abbey. In his own words:

 

"Here are a few snippets  of some very secret history on Nashdom, not revealed until now as only I knew…until now.

Nashdom’s Rev. Dom Robert Petit Pierre became my unlikely friend and travelling companion from the hot summer of 1976. He’d walk to Taplow station many weekday mornings, catch a train to Slough then wait for the fast one to London’s West End.

I’d be on Platform 5 too, just in from Windsor. Me 26, undergraduate on way to Uni doing a BA, he (in 60’s maybe) as Britain’s Master Exorcist, on way to Robert Hale publishers in West End, for editorial sessions  on his forthcoming book ‘Exorcising Devils’.

 We were an unlikely pair, he in long black cloak and cassock, barefoot, battered brown sandals and brief case to match, no hair, pebble glasses and bit of stoop; me hippyish looking, long hair with cut down Levi’s and flip flops.

The first time we spoke, he got on the train behind me and said ‘Are you OK now?’ I guess he sensed that I was troubled. I was, having just been parted from a girl who was caught up in all sort of rubbish to do with Tarot Cards. Anyway, we struck up the first of many conversation that always took place from Slough’s Platform 5, through to Oxford Circus.

One morning, standing together, on the same platform at Oxford Circus but waiting for separate trains, I noticed ‘The Exorcist’ film poster had been put on the wall behind us. I asked Dom Robert what he thought and he scoffed that such movies served the purpose of stimulating sexual instincts and won’t forget his main words; ‘The real thing is more frightening’ .

Funnily enough though (and he did have great sense of humour) he added that whenever he was called to do an exorcism, he usually deduced the problem  was more one of mental illness, mostly psychosis, but ‘I perform an exorcism anyway because it won’t do them any harm and usually helps’.

I’ve never by the way bothered to see the film. Ho hum. Dom Robert  also used the term ‘little devils’. I wasn’t sure what he meant, but don’t think it was to describe troublesome spiritual entities, but more as a neat term to describe so called poltergeists, especially when objects moved around without explanation through psycho kinesis.

He said the Astors called him up to Cliveden frequently via a shady walk along Parliament Lane. Apparently, they reckoned Cliveden was troubled by poltergeists. (probably when  Nancy Astor had put plenty gin down her neck).

We lost contact but not before he’d agreed to write an article entitled ‘Do ghosts really exist’, for a youth community magazine I was editing at the time. I still have the letter from Dom Robert to this day, committing to do the article.

Years passed, the monks left, Nashdom became derelict and as I was living nearby, found out. The place had been ravaged by local oiks of its many fixtures  and even a witches' coven were meeting in the 17 acres of ground and disturbed Dom Roberts grave. I told the remaining monks who by then had moved to Speen and I think they tidied things up.

Later, in the middle of the property crash aftermath and contrary to any other speculation, Nashdom was sold for a mere £450,000 in an auction. We all know that since then it has become  a valuable financial investment.

BUT, before all that, with a blessing from the senior monk at Speen, I went into Nashdom and recovered some valuable items from the very deep basement, plus hidden parts of the grounds. One such item I acquired was a wood carving of a figure that I placed in the garden of a local Taplow pub, the Oak and Saw. I agreed with the pub that I’ll retain ownership , even though the figure is with them. There is small plaque I put on the front entitled ‘Mystery Monk’, but in truth, it was early stage carving of a new Christ figure to go in the graveyard at Nashdom. I haven’t been to the pub for a while, but guess they still have the item in the garden. I also recovered and safely stored a large plaster moulding of the so called Dolgorouki coat of arms that is at the centre of the top of the building.

Another curious piece I retained from the dusty basement is a beautifully handwritten wine stock list, entitled BINO (Russian for wine). Probably written by Alex. Anyway, this is just the thin end of the wedge when it comes to Nashdom’s secret history.

The one thing I haven’t revealed here is that when Fairbriar homes who bought, renovated and sold off all the Nashdom apartments, I called in just out of curiosity to see what they had done in all their stud walled apartments and was astounded to hear that one of the sales agents  had just been spooked when going into one of the show apartments to discover that all the furnishings had been trashed, despite there supposedly being nobody who could have got in there.

I nearly passed comment that maybe it was the drunken dissatisfied ghost of Nancy Astor, but thought no, don’t bother, they’d never believe it even if it was true.”

Lawrence ⓒ 2018

Nashdom Abbey, Buckinghamshire

 

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45 comments

I used to serve at the altar at nearby St Nicholas, Hedsor. When clergy had to be away, monks from Nashdom were quite often asked to celebrate the eucharist at Hedsor, so I often used to serve for them, usually either Dom Robert Petitpierre or Dom Patrick Dalton. The latter encouraged my Mum as parish Christian Aid organizer when The Daily Mail ran its usual sort of scurrilous article claiming it was funding terrorists. Another monk famous in his field (of music history) had been Dom Anselm Hughes. As librarian, Dom Aidan Harker gave me access to Dom Anselm’s former study when I was writing an undergraduate dissertation on Gregorian Chant. It still contained his books, the sort of books to which I would otherwise have had access only with considerable difficulty. Later, Aidan Harker arranged for the books to be taken to Royal Holloway, University of London, where they still form The Dom Anselm Hughes Memorial Library.

Peter Wilton

The redevelopment was actually a joint venture between two developers, FairBriar plc and MacLeod Developments. I worked for the PR company that assisted with the marketing and we threw a Russian themed garden party for the journalists. I remember getting told off by my MD as my first site visit lasted too long because I wanted to see every corner of the property during its restoration. It started my deep love of grand old mansions and I still stop outside Nashdom whenever I go to Cliveden. It’s still looking good so I’m glad you’re all looking after it 😉 I’ve been lucky enough since to work for other restoration developers and there are so many beautiful houses you would never know about. I don’t know if Nashdom ever hosts an open house event but I would love to come back and see the rear elevation again.

Christopher Knight

As a young organ building apprentice I used to hold keys for the organ tuner when we visited the organ at Nashdom Abbey in 1959/60.probably twice a year I often wonder what happened to the organ the firm who maintained the organ was J.W.Walkers of Ruislip Middx.
There are no details of the organ on the National Pipe Organ register

Keith S..Bance

I was a choir boy at Hitcham Church from 1951 and almost continually until I went to college in 1962. The Rector was the Reverand James who I got to know over the years and enjoyed many visits to the Rectory. In his absence from church, we had services conducted by the Prior at Nashdom.

Through this connection, as choir boys, we were invited on several occasions to Nasdom and were not only shown around the building in detail but also invited to partake in tea with the monks. I recall one incident where we were shown a thrible and how it was used to spread the incense during service. One of the older and more enthusiastic choir boys made a huge swing that impacted the floor on the descent and left the thrible mightily dented. Never sure it ever stood upright after that.

The grounds were immaculate and each year we would press for an invitation in the autumn to go and collect the chestnuts that were prolific. I see from Google Maps that the grove still remains and I hope the crop of chestnuts is still as prolific. Does anybody know?

Deryk C Ford

My father use to live here look after and maintain the whole place long before it was made in to luxury flats.We use to have some really awesome days and nights there even the odd rave or barbi that even made the local papers.God we had such good times there so many stories.

James Hawkes

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